Congratulations on becoming a new dad. Now that you have stepped into fatherhood, you want to make sure you are the best dad in the world. Perhaps you feel your world revolves around your newborn. But if you’re going through intense emotions, with the lack of sleep in the initial months of your baby’s birth, you are surely wondering whether your partner is responsible for all the baby chores. Here are a few tips for new dads that can help strengthen your bond with your child and make a positive start to fatherhood.
How To Be a Great Father: Tips for New Dads
So you are starting off your life as a new dad. Here are some important tips for new dads to make a good start. The traits of fatherhood are learned in a planned, gradual way. You might be wondering what to do and where to start. Perhaps the thoughts of your partner having it all covered reflect on your mind often, and you may be feeling unsure as to what to do to kick-start your role as a new dad.
As a dad, what you do will have a huge impact on your baby’s life.
Get started before the birth of your first child
Your journey as a new dad begins even before the birth of your bundle of joy. Baby-proofing of your home is essential, so you have all things right when your tiny tot comes in your life. You want to spend maximum time with your baby, rather than running around here and there looking for baby care essentials. Make a list of all that is required once your baby is born. The list should include baby clothes, diapers, wet wipes, bath tub, bath essentials, feeding essentials, sheets, blankets, and formula, among others.
Getting involved in the daily care
Now that your tiny tot is in your arms, you have got to get involved in his daily care. Learn about diaper change, dressing, bathing, babysitting, and playing with your little one. You can spend a good amount of time with your tiny tot with these everyday activities. Perhaps this is the beginning of a beautiful journey – the building block of a positive relationship.
When you learn these essential tips for new dads, you make life easier for your partner. After all, she needs more rest. While you babysit, your partner can take a few minutes of much-needed nap.
Researchers suggest that fathers who help change baby diapers enjoy deeper, stronger, and lasting relationships with the mother of their child. Learn diapering as a shared duty with mom.
Help mom breastfeed
Get up with mommy for late-night feedings. Help your partner with breastfeeding. Encourage her to breastfeed while you learn about bottle feeding formula.
When she gets up in the middle of the night for breastfeeding, you would do well by getting up along with her to support her emotionally. It’s a good idea to share stories about your day, marvel at how cute your baby is.
Share the responsibility of burping the baby after his feed time.
Spend time with your baby
When you spend time with your tiny tot, you get to know about many baby cues or signals that tell you what they need and when. Their body language tells you more things about their needs. When you pay attention to your little one’s cues, you’ll learn a lot about your little bundle of joy.
Research shows that the more time dads spend with their newborns, the stronger their bonding gets. While the initial months are tough for both the baby and parents, it would help to be kind and gentle with yourself. Perhaps you have stepped into a new role. So do not expect yourself to be the perfect dad from the beginning itself. It’s a slow learning curve, so allow yourself time for some learning and gradually grow into your new role as a dad.
Talk to your baby
When you are learning how to be a great dad, it’s a good idea to start talking to your tiny tot right from the beginning. When you are changing the nappy, talk to him, saying “Let’s change the dirty nappy. You will feel better. We’ll be done in a minute.”
When your words fall on his ears, he will start to understand you. This can help develop his language and learning skills. Additionally, it’s an excellent way to strengthen your bond. Whether you read books or tell stories or even sing songs, it will have the same effect.
Give the mommy some “me” time
Your partner is more stressed physically and emotionally after giving birth to the baby. She needs your support at every step of the way so you can create beautiful memories together. Perhaps you don’t want to end up fighting with each other over issues about sharing child care responsibilities.
One of the best tips for new dads is to allow mommy to have some “me” time. Remember, being a mom is a harder job than being a dad. The best you can do is to help her take little breaks here and there. While she naps, you may take the responsibility to babysit or give her some time to visit her friend, relative who lives nearby. This helps her take a small break and rejuvenate herself for baby care.
Many men looking for tips as to how to be a great dad forget that the essence of being a great father lies with being a great husband.
As a great husband, make sure your partner doesn’t get burned out in her mommy role.
Connect through touch
It’s the human touch that makes your baby feel safe and secure. When you are trying to learn how to be a great father, remember that it is your love and touch that can build trust and connection with your baby. Your touch not only brings you both together but also stimulates your tiny tot’s brain development. When you hold him close to your chest, he can hear your heartbeat and feel safe in a world that is completely stranger to them.
Look after yourself when you are still learning how to be a great dad. Create special moments with your baby when both of you are trying to nurture your relationship and bonding.
Ravneet also blogs at www.wellnessguide.com
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